Barony of Starlit Caverns/Etiquette

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This is the etiquette primer found freely available in the Court of the Barony of Starlit Caverns. Various lessons and documents are available IC for any who seek lessons. Those who would simply like an OOC explanation of the expectations of Courtly behavior in the Starlit Caverns are also welcome to make use of this document.


Terms of Address

Those bearing various titles have different terms of address.

1. Squires have no formal term of address. Their name is perfect sufficient.
2. Knight/Lady - Knights have different terms of address, the most of common of which is Sir, such as Sir John Doe, or Sir John. Some female knights prefer the styling of Dame or Lady. Non-knighted ladies, like Jane Doe, may be addressed as 'my lady', 'Lady Jane, or 'Lady Doe' depending on the station they hold in their families.
3. Baron/Baroness - The term of address for a Baron or Baroness is 'my lord' or 'my lady', or sometimes 'Your Lordship.' They may be addressed as such, or as 'Lord John' or 'Lady Jane.' Their full title comes in with formal statements, such as 'Lord John Doe, Baron of Fictional Barony' or 'the Baroness of Fictional Barony' when not paired with their name.
4. Count/Countess - The term of address for a Count or Countess is 'Your Excellency.' They may be addressed as such or with their surname, according to their preference, as in 'Countess Doe.' In more formal address, they would be styled as 'Lady Jane Doe, Countess of Pretend County' or 'the Count of Pretend County.'
5. Duke/Duchess - The term of address for a Duke or Duchess is 'Your Grace.' They may be addressed as such. In full formal statement, they would be 'the Duke of Make Believe Duchy' or 'Her Grace, Jane Doe, Duchess of Make Believe Duchy.'
6. Prince/Princess - The term of address for a Prince or Princess is 'Your Highness' or 'Your Royal Highness' depending on their standing. They may be addressed as such, or as 'Prince John' or 'Princess Jane.' In formal address, they would be 'His Royal Highness Prince John Doe of the Kingdom of Imagination' or 'Her Highness Princess Jane.'
7. King/Queen - The term of address for a King or Queen is 'Your Majesty.' They may be addressed as such. More formal address would be 'Her Majesty, Queen Jane Doe of Fakeland' or simply 'His Majesty, the King.'

Introductions

Formal introductions to the Baron may be handled by appointment or during open Court. A bow or curtsy is customary. One's full name, any title they claim, and any Houses they may be sworn to are expected in a formal introduction. Other information may be provided, such as kith or epithets but are not required.

Addressing Those of Higher Station

Those who wish to address those of higher station should do so with respect and patience. Those of higher station are expect to treat fairly and kindly with those who approach them in good faith. Of course, more casual interaction is permitted as both parties desire, but as standard practice decorum should be upheld.